What To Expect At Meeting for Worship

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Quaker worship is a shared, mostly silent seeking of the inward Light. Traditionally, we come together in a shared space for Meeting for Worship. Ithaca Friends gather for “unprogrammed” Meeting for Worship on Sunday mornings at 10:30 am, in-person at our Third Street Meetinghouse and remotely via Zoom, for a hybrid Meeting for Worship. In unprogrammed worship, there is no paid minister or pre-planned ministry.

We invite you to join us.

Whether we are in the Meetinghouse, outside, or in our own homes, we are all together in Spirit.


Being in Meeting for Worship

Friends are encouraged to arrive at the Meetinghouse in time to be seated before worship starts to allow time to settle in. If you arrive after Meeting for Worship has begun, please enter the meetingroom through the library and enter as quietly as possible. If someone is speaking when you arrive, it is considered polite to wait in the doorway or library until the Friend has finished sharing their message before you enter the room.


When someone speaks

When a Friend is “moved to speak” during Meeting for Worship, we consider that they are delivering a message from the Spirit. If you feel led to speak, rise from your seat (as able) and speak clearly so all present may hear your message.

Friends are invited to listen deeply to the message.

It often takes time for the listeners to reflect upon the Truth within a message. Thus, it is common to leave several minutes of silence after someone has spoken. Sometimes, we may find ourselves wanting to respond to a speaker, but Meeting for Worship is not a place for conversation or debate.


The rise of Meeting

To close the hour of Meeting for Worship, the clerk of the Meeting, or another designated Friend, will say hello and invite Friends to greet each other with a wave or a brief hello.

After this moment of greeting, the person closing worship invites Friends to share the following:

  • Joys and Concerns. Friends are invited to share significant events in their personal lives. Just as other religious groups may ask for your prayers, Friends may ask for a loved one to be “held in the Light.”
  • Introductions. Newcomers, visitors and Friends who have been away from sometime are invited to introduce themselves. Many choose to say a little something about what brings them to Meeting that day. Newcomers are invited to introduce themselves several times so that others may get to know them a little better.
  • Announcements. The Clerk shares announcements of Meeting affairs and upcoming events related to our Meeting or wide Quaker organizations.

During this part of Meeting for Worship, Friends are encouraged to indicate that they have something to share and wait to be acknowledged by the clerk before speaking.


What about children?

It is to be expected that babies and young children will make some noises or wiggle around in Meeting for Worship. Many Friends delight in these nonverbal messages from the Spirit.